I've always believed that for most women, sex is never just sex. But I'm Pinhead.
read your own quote line, you've always believed that for most women, sex is never just sex, is it possible you are wrong in this idea too?
PH I will tell you that women enjoy sex just for sex just as much as men and it doesn't always involve a heart felt emotional connection - sometimes it's just raw animal sex and that's it. Reading more into is just you searching for something that may not be there.
If I were you, I would just consider it sex and nothing more and leave it at that, assuming more will only leave you feeling even more let down.
Hold up, now, this is important. The question is not whether or not the sex was any more meaningful than having sex. The question is whether or not the fact that she had sex with him has significance in relation to her statement that she had lost her attraction to him. This happens in a lot of our sitches and it can freak out a WAW. They think once they've lost the attraction they can't get it back. The fact that she had it back, even for a moment, may undermine part of the basis for her walking away and that may be something to build on.
Now, it may be that the WAW is incapable of that kind of insight, but if they ever come around certainly something like this can be a step towards reaching the tipping point.
Not trying to get your hopes up, Pin. I just think this merits more discussion if only to get more understanding.
