< Focusing on paying down debt helps. Isn't the W 50% responsible for this? Educate yourself on the dire consequences (including financial) of D first.
< Focusing on my job helps. Fine.
< Thinking ahead on the beautiful, smart women that are out there once I'm divorced helps. Lots of recovery and prep work first so don't dwell on idle thought. Think instead how you will care for D8+11.
< But I still get caught thinking of STBXW and hoping. That .0000001 percent won't die. Whack yourself hard with a wrist rubber band each time this happens until the thought dies.
