Ah yes, I was just catching up. Sorry for the turn in events but hopefully you'll see improvement. My sitch is still mostly the same, H and OW, me states away, and I'm dark/NC.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness