How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[irishblessings]

amg -

I have wondered the same thing myself. I will have a "flash" of WTF am I doing standing after all that he has done to me and to our family. But then I think it comes down to what do YOU believe about your vows, your marriage, your commitment? If you believe in for better/worse, etc. then you buckle in for the long, painful haul and recognize that that's who YOU are. If you have defined your boundaries of better/worse and you/he has surpassed them - then you move on. I don't think anyone here can judge one way or another - it's your understanding of who you are.

IB