We all have days like that...ready to give up...too tired to fight. But as you know by now, they come and go....tomorrow is another day, I'm sure that you'll feel differently.
If I were you I wouldn't communicate with the other woman....either ignore her emails or tell he that you have nothing to say to her, not to email you anymore. I don't see any value in it for you....what are you getting out of talking to her? She only makes you feel bad....don't let her, cut off the emails.
By the sounds of it things are not as wonderful as they appear....the OW is so insecure that she has the need to go after you.
I know that you are a though cookie....definitely not a quitter....so summon up your strength and patience and wait it out....
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO