IDU, sending prayers your way my friend.

About the "aha moment". I think we all get there some day. Maybe not as quickly as we should but we eventually get there on our own timeline. I think I might have had mine last night.

You're doing a great job dealing with things.

Good luck with the house. Hope it works out for you.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch