Don't look back buddy. Everything else is just conjecture. If you go forward and live your life the way YOU want to, You will make You happy again it's he only FACT you control.
She might come back, she might not come back, hell, she might grow wings and fly back. None of that is something you can REALLY control. You know, it hit me square in the chops every time one of the pros told me to BE THE MAN. It was exactly what I needed to hear. Ride off into that sunset and cue the music. If she pulls her head out and discovers what she lost, she'll come search you out.
I'm proud of you. It sounds like your confidence is high and you're looking forward.
Cheers
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs
Life really is too short for this type of panic and anguish. I don't know who said it to me (Probably McQ) but it's not the zombie apocalypse. I'll survive, my kids will survive. And probably, we'll all be happier in the future.
Life really is too short for this type of panic and anguish. I don't know who said it to me (Probably McQ) but it's not the zombie apocalypse. I'll survive, my kids will survive. And probably, we'll all be happier in the future.
W just called to see if I got her VM thanking me for the flowers. I missed it while I was in a meeting. She was grocery shopping for dinner tomorrow, and had a million questions. Asked me how I was, I said "Great."
Going to have dinner, put the kids to bed, and learn how to cut a rug... I wish I could get a photo of her when she sees me all decked out.
I get what you are saying to PH, but can we just discount the fact that the woman who said she was not attracted to him just had sex with him? That could be a non-event or a major change in the dynamic. How can you tell the difference?
I've always believed that for most women, sex is never just sex. But I'm Pinhead.
W just called to see if I got her VM thanking me for the flowers. I missed it while I was in a meeting. She was grocery shopping for dinner tomorrow, and had a million questions. Asked me how I was, I said "Great."
Going to have dinner, put the kids to bed, and learn how to cut a rug... I wish I could get a photo of her when she sees me all decked out.
PH, following along. Just wanted to say well done sir. Keep it going!
As Coach would say, be catnip.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch