My walk away wife story

[40andsadintexas]

If I live to be 100 I don't think I will ever understand my STBEXW.

Well, even in good times... I think it's the kiss of death to think you will ever understand women Magical creatures.

Yes you are 100% correct anyone that thinks they have women figgured out are in for a major shock. I think thats how most of us men ended up here

She wanted out of the marriage, she has never looked back for one second, she has even changed her name on facebook, OK I get it, but why when I am getting as far away from her as I can why does she call just to talk???

She's pursuing you. She interested now. You stopped pursuing her. Stay dark.

Coach if I were married to a normal person I would agree with you, but I think MSTBEXW is a little (Ok a lot) more of a pain in the *## than most people here are dealing with. My brother told me she misses her punching bag and would like to get a few more shots in before were through  I think he might have point. Thanks for the advice on staying dark that is my plan, I feel much better when I don’t have to interact with her.

40,

I agree with TimeHeals that you should try to find a way to enjoy yourself. However I disagree on custody. She is making very poor decisions right now. Now, if those decisions only impacted her, that'd be one thing. Unfortunaltely, her stupidity is putting your kids in danger. I would push for full custody. I think it's all well and good for 50/50 when both parents are at least responsible parents. I'm sorry to say that your W is not right now. Maybe she'll come to her senses somewhere down the road, but right now I'd be affraid every time they're with her.

Be strong man.

Right now we are working joint custody with me having the power and her having visitation. At some point forward when she starts acting like a normal person, regains some of her morals I will not have a problem sharing the kids with her on a 50/50 split. I have no intensions of ever getting back in the position where I am now where she has all the power that will not work she has proven that time and again. Its kind of funny but the harder I fight her the more access I have to my kids. So I may not be divorce busting ( That’s Hopeless)but many of the things in DR still apply so keep doing what’s working!!!