Originally Posted By: CD Bear
Thanks, Gritter.

Originally Posted By: Truegritter

When you enter this part of the river (good analogy) things start to calm down a little bit.

Wonka is laying it out very nicely for you. The detachment process and then self realization and then self actualization.

They are all a process CD.


The calmness is giving me too much time to think (see "analyze")

Why am I having so much trouble detaching? Personally, trying to preserve "love" in the detachment is messing me up.

I'm trying to do all three stages at once.

Should I just stop everything? I can't be reading all this stuff on finding my core and correcting my issues if I'm not even close to being detached. Every corrective action is being geared to "saving the M and her"

Honestly, right now, I don't have a clue what I'm doing.


Hello CD,

I'm catching up on your sitch, still have a lot of reading to do. You have some awesome support here! As you have helped me I'm going to try and support you as well. Thank you Friend and you are not alone.