I am a card-carrying member of the Clueless Club, too =) Just chiming in that I am happily following along.

BTW, my W did a similar thing during the first 1-2 weeks of our sep where she had my D5 (then D4) call me on the phone asking me to come over to have strawberry shortcake with them (BETTY CROCKERISM!)

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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