I'm not pursuing at all. I let her call me 6 times, leave 3 voicemails, and send 3 text messages before I called her back. It was concerning our son. I declined an invite. Then she invited me to another time with our son and mutual friends. I said I didn't know, but pencil me in.
Is that bad?
Not in my book. As someone asked the other day, "If he cooks me dinner, then I should call him an a$$hole?"