Merrick, I do think that you nailed it pretty good. Like I said, I've never had it said to me, in fact had the opposite said, but I've wondered what it meant to people.
I believe that I do love my H unconditionally. I think that he knows that. Maybe that is why he said he still loved me and wanted our M. I don't know. I think that my faith in God has made this love possible. I'm not saying that a non-believer can't have unconditional love, I'm just saying that I believe for me that it comes from a higher source.
I appreciate what you said about loving detachment. I think the idea of detaching and not taking the things he does personally had slipped past me. I need to work on that one.
This is really interesting to read what you all think about this.
