Oh, my, look at you guys cheering me on!! Thanks Kat, Jeff and D4ML--you guys are the best!!
OK, Just now had a blow up with H over the credit card. I put my L's fees on the credit card and the bill came in yesterday. I was glad I was acting pissed at H yesterday, as he was really kind about the money--"how much do we need to put in, etc".
So this a.m. he takes money to the personal account and puts in enough to cover the CC. Just now he calls and he doesn't want to pay the CC, just wants to do the minimum balance. I tell him, why don't you pay everything other than the $5000 for my attorney's fees. (I HATE paying interest to the CC company!) and he's like, OK.
So then I guess I started in on his not "helping" and he says "I don't want to pay for the bathroom I am leaving" and I say "GREAT!! Thanks for leaving this on S and ME to FIX!! He goes off, I go off ( It's been a long time since I didn't validate very well--I admit it--I just let him have it!)--I was floundering for some truth dart to throw at him and hang up and never got anything in my brain in time and he said something and hung up. GRRRR. He "won"!! I see how that works now!
So I tried to send a text and I guess he has blocked my number?? I haven't ever sent him a text so I don't know...
Anyway, I guess this is just par for the course. I did throw at him that his S wonders if he even loves him--which--My poor S told me this the other day and it was ME telling him NO, your dad is nuts for you and loves you so much. Of course they wonder.
So I went to Lowes and HD and did get to look at the site that Jeff posted and part of me is up for the challenge, and part of me is just so sick of living with 3 disgusting bathrooms. If I take money and just do it it will probably incite a war. But I am debating that right now....
