On two ends of the world..

[TimeHeals]

So it's basically non-pursuit and trying to get him make an effort to keep me interested?

Look, I don't know much, but arguing with each other about your feelings (e.g. trying to change the way the other feels) isn't working.

So... there's this neat trick we can all do: we can be happy and take charge of our own happiness. I say enjoy the things you like, do little things that will make your life better in the near future, don't sweat the small stuff, and it sure can't hurt anything.

Cats can also be happy sleeping on a pillow or playing with a piece of string in a distant part of the house