Sorry I only meant that when you were A busting a lot of the focus is on tactics and not on personal growth

When you enter this part of the river (good analogy) things start to calm down a little bit.

Wonka is laying it out very nicely for you. The detachment process and then self realization and then self actualization.

They are all a process CD.

Pride is what drives your self righteousness and that is barrier to growth and healing.

Pride ain't one of the 7 deadlies for nothing...

There is no room for pride in love.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am