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that is a wonderful place to be!

i found out tonight that x has another girlfirned. IT is ok but still makes you go. hmmmm.

wierd stage i am in. not interested in dating .. and as with you ok where i am and counting my blessings as well.

time to look at my glass half full....

we are making our way out and up friend!!


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again


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Cagz,

Another girlfriend, how sad. He has not learned the lessons he needs to learn. Happiness is within..... Life is good for us though, keep keepin on...


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
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My ex has been unusally compliant lately. He sent money in for son's college when he said he would not. Daughter is starting K-5 next week and I sent ex an email informing him of her schedule. He deposited money in her lunch account and I did not even ask him to do this. I also informed him that she would not be with him for 2 weeks in order for her to have a smooth transition into K-5 and not have to go back and forth between houses. He was ok with this....


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Today is my father's 81st surprise birthday party. Ex was aware that I was going to pick up daughter from day care early. He did not bring her to day care today and instead said he would meet me at a certain location to give her to me.???? We are playing games again....


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Ex is emailing/texting me like crazy out of the blue. I don't know what to make of it. Just simple chit chat, nothing more.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Quote:
I don't know what to make of it.


Then go with that: don't give it any meaning.


M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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I know, no meaning.....


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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cordial
no expectations
friendly
I think they peek in and run out
no explanation

I got a weird phonecall out of the blue from my x bf when I was 17-23
he said he got my number from 411 and wanted to connect after 20plus years
i was shocked
I told him I was M
I have no intention or desire to reconnect
but I was so weird- not from my xh but my xhs BF
MY 15 D heard me and took it as a message from God that her dad would also someday want to come home????
peace


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Ex participating in daughter's driver's ed education. Took her out to drive last night for 3 hours. This was very unusual for him


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Trusting,

Did your D say anything about the experience?

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