Prepare for a wonderful discovery

[sage]

I have to constantly remind myself that the intention is for H and I to spend the rest of our lives together and it is OK to take our time...that we don't HAVE to cram everything in right now to make it all grand and right and good. That doesn't mean I don't WANT to cram it all in, it just helps to take some of the urgency out of everything.

I don't know if that helps any but it is applicable to the changes I am trying to make in myself as well as in my R/M.

Hugz,
Zoo

Zoo -- this helps A LOT! Especially today, actually...I've been in "high action" mode all morning despite the knowledge that trying to cram "fix this" down my throat (and even worse, h's throat).

Sage