Prepare for a wonderful discovery

[sage]

so then sage,

I hearby grant you permission to safely, feel good about yourself AND good about your marriage all at the same time!

LL

Thanks, LL...I'm counting on you and my other BB pals to help me get there..ok?

Sage

[sage]

You're inspiring, sage.



Hud

Happy sigh.

Today my mantra is: I am inspiring (as opposed to my usual manta of "why can't I get this right" to whatever end "this" is).

Thanks, pal!
Sage

[sage]

Bridget....the treat of seeing you post on my thread not once but twice of late? You, my dear, are a source of much inspiration and light.

Sage

[sage]

I have to constantly remind myself that the intention is for H and I to spend the rest of our lives together and it is OK to take our time...that we don't HAVE to cram everything in right now to make it all grand and right and good. That doesn't mean I don't WANT to cram it all in, it just helps to take some of the urgency out of everything.

I don't know if that helps any but it is applicable to the changes I am trying to make in myself as well as in my R/M.

Hugz,
Zoo

Zoo -- this helps A LOT! Especially today, actually...I've been in "high action" mode all morning despite the knowledge that trying to cram "fix this" down my throat (and even worse, h's throat).

Sage

[psluke]

Thought I had this morning. Could this partially be a result of being in high action mode to keep up with work, school, the reading you do, plus the new R?

I can see where keeping up with all of this as school ramped up as putting you in high gear and it spilling into other areas. At least I can see it could do that to me!

Just one of those loose thoughts I had floating around and decided to throw out!

[sage]

my next thread:

...the teacher appears

Sage