well the W came over last night and wanted to talk. Basically saying all the same things. Why i was still there, she had nothing more to give, she only came back 3yrs ago so that she would not have any regrets. i tried to stay silent and finally just broke!!i asked her if she had left her worries at the door when she came back, and she said yes. I said how since you keep saying everything everyday reminded you of what happened? why say one thing, but actually do something else? I wouldnt be so upset only that she kept all that hurt covered up and didnt let me know. she says she can never forgive what i had done... when she was trying to leave the boys where crying for her to stay...then she had the nerve to tell me that i better not file and say that she had abandoned us...as if i would ever do that!!! I told her it must be hard for her to feel that way, and i understood her hurt. That there was more able to do retrovialle, MC. I told her i could not make her go. The boys where so upset and cried for at least 1hr afterward until they fell asleep. i thought that when she came back 3yrs ago that it meant that there was recommitment to the marriage, she says there was NO recommitment.
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me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010
