Ris, KellBell0820, and Puppy Dog Tails-I agree that me not calling him is a big 180. I also agree that I was allowing him to cake eat big time. I am sad today because this is Day 6 of NC and even if he did not want to talk to me he could call to check on the kids. I know this is just another symptom of some WS's though. I will stand strong and not contact him. Thank you for your advice.


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)