How many of us are there? What are the specific DB issues related to living together, but separate, at the same time.

I am living with the WH, but we are separate rooms. We eat our meals together, run errands, attend family events, etc. Would we be better served in our DBing to detach? How do you handle this?

In my personal sitch, the WH and I are getting along well, although he says he does not want to work on the marriage. I can't decide if I should avoid him or continue to act as if everything is just dandy.


Me: 36
H: 36
S9 (from my previous marriage)
D2
Bomb-date: 4/7/10
10/10 Giving it six months to see what happens