I haven't said anything to her yet. Just sent the flowers. When she brings up the flowers/sx, I'm going to tell her:
"Last night was wonderful," and leave it at that. And keep on with having her move out, on my schedule, with me leading.
That isn't leading.
PH.. You ALREADY blew it again...
The flowers alone is enough. No words can change that. Sending flowers to a woman says it all..
All women and MOST men know what it means when a man sends flowers to his wife, girlfriend or lover..
And of course NOW you are going to dig deeper because after the flowers you are "going to tell" her__________(fill in blank)
You don't get that you have become the feminine one and she is the masculine one... The feminine one always "wants to talk" about the relationship.... where it is going etc. etc..
You need to learn one big important lesson as a man..(who is getting dumped)...
SILENCE is golden..... mystery is your friend.... walking away proudly is your catnip.. rejecting her is your key to reconciliation.......
These are all things you don't seem to be able to do or grasp except in small increments of time.. Then you fall back into the pursuit mode... Scared to put her into a crisis of major proportions... even though it is crisis that moves us all to make necessary changes. (use yourself as that example)
