If you really really observe the dynamics of relationships PH, you would see that a wayward spouse has sex with the LBS in many cases and instances..... so we know that you can have sex and still have the other person wonder if you still love them... (which is what you SHOULD be wanting her to think.. "does he STILL love me and have I gone too far and hurt this man too much")(but you don't have enough confidence in yourself to stick your chest out and say to yourself.. "I have been a great guy to this woman over the years. If she can't see that then.. tough sh*t for her.. I am not pursuing that woman ever again."
It is HOW YOU HANDLE IT AND WHAT YOU SAY AND DO that is the important thing.....
You should have just kept your mouth shut after the sex.... Let HER wonder what YOU were thinking...
Of course that isn't you. You just refuse to be strong and confident... You are a man who still wants to be with a woman who says she isn't attracted to you. How sad and how silly. The men who get the women do NOT stay and try to get a woman to love them back... They HIT THE ROAD...They are NOT mean and not punitive.. They are GONE... They know that there are TOO MANY women out there that WILL love them and treat them well. They are the men who have the women that chase them and laugh at the "nice guy"(your) who never gets the woman and yet can't stop chasing...
Well, maybe I can learn something today huh? Maybe you will be the FIRST man to send flowers to a woman that doesn't want him and have it turn her completely back in love with him because of his unending and undying love for her. Maybe she really doesn't mean that she isn't attracted to you and now the flowers will get through her thick skull huh?
