M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I'm working until 5pm. Eating my lunch at my desk. She gets off around 2pm, then she'll be picking up the girls from school and trying to figure out the flowers.
I'm going to look into a house rental that our pastor mentioned and see how much it will cost for my W.
Now just waiting for Gucci to come along and tell me I'm still pursuing. Might be a 3-way cage match; Gucci, Coach, and McQ.
Really doesn't make any difference to me what you do PH. No skin off of my back.
I will GUARANTEE ONE THING...
G U A R A N T E E...
It will NOT turn around while you keep doing the things you do. However, it is your life.. Don't say I didn't warn you when you tell me you "tried everything" but it didn't work out because I will say to you then that "you didn't do what I said"
How sad for you. You are slowly going to let this get away from you.
Discipline and consistency doesn't seem to be one of your strong suits. A plan of the day man... (not attractive to women) How can I chase and show weakness today. How can I chase a woman who even admits she doesn't find me desireable in the way she would like???...
keep chasing.. looks like you are the type that has to find out the hard way... Your choice.
If you really really observe the dynamics of relationships PH, you would see that a wayward spouse has sex with the LBS in many cases and instances..... so we know that you can have sex and still have the other person wonder if you still love them... (which is what you SHOULD be wanting her to think.. "does he STILL love me and have I gone too far and hurt this man too much")(but you don't have enough confidence in yourself to stick your chest out and say to yourself.. "I have been a great guy to this woman over the years. If she can't see that then.. tough sh*t for her.. I am not pursuing that woman ever again."
It is HOW YOU HANDLE IT AND WHAT YOU SAY AND DO that is the important thing.....
You should have just kept your mouth shut after the sex.... Let HER wonder what YOU were thinking...
Of course that isn't you. You just refuse to be strong and confident... You are a man who still wants to be with a woman who says she isn't attracted to you. How sad and how silly. The men who get the women do NOT stay and try to get a woman to love them back... They HIT THE ROAD...They are NOT mean and not punitive.. They are GONE... They know that there are TOO MANY women out there that WILL love them and treat them well. They are the men who have the women that chase them and laugh at the "nice guy"(your) who never gets the woman and yet can't stop chasing...
Well, maybe I can learn something today huh? Maybe you will be the FIRST man to send flowers to a woman that doesn't want him and have it turn her completely back in love with him because of his unending and undying love for her. Maybe she really doesn't mean that she isn't attracted to you and now the flowers will get through her thick skull huh?
No worries, it made me laugh. And I'm guilty of hijacking as well.