For emotional abuse? That is why I am speaking to a L today. I thought we just needed physical abuse. And how does one prove it?

Also like I said, he's been very nice now that I've backed off and seen a lawyer. He doesn't know I am seeing the L but he can sense it.

Perhaps I should provoke him! Then tape it!

Me: 41
H: 36
M: 7y
T: 9y
Separated: 1+ y
S: 5