A new beginning to an end

[ImprovedRomeo]

Sol, I'm just swamped today but wanted to send some words of encouragement.

I know it sucks and I know exactly how you feel. Heartbreaks suck! But in most cases we cause our own pain by having expectations of other people. Don't expect him to write you back and you'll feel better. You said to him what you wanted to say that's one thing but because you're expecting an answer back you're feel anxious and down. Don't do that to yourself. Next time don't say anything to him at all. Just post here instead. Tell us how you're feeling, tell us what you're going through...use us to channel or vent. He doesn't even deserve to know how you feel. After the way he's acted why do you want his sorry butt! I know it's hard for you to see it now as it was for me too for 5 long years but now I see it so clearly and wish I'd D'd STBXW years ago when she first left me.

Hang in there, you'll be OK. Take care of yourself! go see a doc if you need to.

(((Sol)))