kiti,

I don't think anyone would or should want to be like anyone else...(although my thoughts in my r at least, is that it would be nice if I were a bit more like h and he a bit more like me)

that statement was made to say what it says...

it is much easier to relax and be comfortable being yourself when you are around people who are relaxed and being themselves (wich is why I don't have many of those "fake" little soccer mom friends)

LL