One question...do I continue with the flirting/innuendo or just continue to be business like in our interactions?
That's precisely why good intel is needed. If my wife were still carrying on in an affair, I wouldn't want to be flirting with her. If she had ended it, I WOULD want to -- slowly -- begin to do the "catnip" kind of stuff that Coach advises.
Tough to say in your sitch, 51. But critical, I think.