My walk away wife story

[40andsadintexas]

Journaling

If I live to be 100 I don't think I will ever understand my STBEXW. Yesterday I worked late and did not get home at a normal time, when I left work I noticed that I had a missed call from her I called to see if my kids had tried to call me, and she said no she had that she had. She then started telling me about some credit stuff and asking my advice. I was nice and gave her the obvious answer (my first grader would have gave her the same advice) told her I was going into the store and had to go I wasn't I just don't feel like being friends with her, but I have to be nice and pleasant for now because I am getting more access to my kids. Any way when I got home I found 3 messages she had left on my phone I did not respond. I went riding my bike and did not get back until late. About 10 My D10 called me and talked for a minute then she started asking me what I was doing, and ask me where I had been I'm pretty sure her mom put her up to asking the questions because she told me she was laying in bed with mom.
She is messing around with every man who will give her the time of day, we are in a custody fight that I am escalating almost on a daily basis, and now she is trying to contact me and getting my my kids to dig for information. Why, Why would she care what I'm doing. I care about what she is doing because she is involving my kids, and I want my kids.
She wanted out of the marriage, she has never looked back for one second, she has even changed her name on facebook, OK I get it, but why when I am getting as far away from her as I can why does she call just to talk???