Go over to neighbor's house or if you are at work ask one of your co-workers to slap you in the face as hard as they can then knee you in the nuts and when you are lying on the ground to step on your face until you cry "no more. please stop. please. please. please, it hurts."
Kinda how your wife will feel after she lets down one of her boundaries and you tell her its nothing. a mistake.
You want a passionate woman? You should be sending roses to her desk at work. and find that dessert bar, have some cake and talk about something other than logistics.
Seriously? Send her flowers? I'm going to put you and Coach in the octagon... My head spins from the different advice.
The best advice is to do what works. YOU are the ONLY expert on your WAW. What works and what doesn't?? I'm guessing sending gifts right now would not give you the desired results.
I would suggest playing it cool. More like Coach's advice. Tell her how much it meant to you and how great it was, but you are very much aware that it doesn't change how she feels. Let her correct you if that's not the case.
You are not going to acknowledge that she had ML to you last night? whats it been months or her telling you 'she just doesn't feel it'? Now she felt it and you are going to make her feel cheap about it.
Thing is YOU DO NOT HAVE A BACK UP PLAN.
so you make her feel like having sex with you is a mistake. ok. then your cut off.
what else do you have to keep her intrigued? a little near sightedness and peach fuzz on your palms?
what else do you have going on that might add up to a little action? Always have a backup plan.
It's drama, excitement, something to talk about, adventerous, what does this mean kind of thinking.
What did your wife do last night when you dropped the bomb? She got excited and went and talked to friends. DRAMA. She's the center of attention - not boring. They all are talking about you - who does he think he is? wonder if he is having a A? what will I do?
You send flowers - what does that mean? Somebody got lucky last night? all the girls notice and go ask who sent them and why? - DRAMA, center of attention, and it's not boring.
Understand women.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
as einstein said, I think it would be easier to understand relativity.
still learning Coach
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