You're going to have to consider that depression will play a factor in your DB efforts. You're focused on moving the R into intimacy. Your W is focused on the negative. Loving a depressed person takes the mindset of a saint--more giving than receiving until she comes out of it. You will need to have increased acceptance of what she can give at this time.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
