A visit to the farm market, the produce section, health food store. When she regains movement in her arms, a physical activity, tennis, or a martial arts school that has a family program, swimming at the Y.
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Do you mean these activities literally or figuratively? That *I* invite her to farmer's market and to physical activities?
I've been wanting to do that for awhile -- invite her to tennis, golf, spin classes, because they are things we both enjoy, and she is an athletic girl at her core, but the surgery is in the way. Isn't that pursuit though????
There is a farmer's market near us that she loves but hasn't gone to in ages. She always is so excited after she goes there with the cool fresh stuff she finds. Are you suggesting I invite her to that???
Or are you suggesting these things figuratively as representing a different relationship dynamic?
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