The year of not my problem

[kat727]

I like to get to the root of things. I wanted to know why. What happened. I may never really know and I have to be okay with that or drive myself nuts. It took along time to get to where I am. We aren't friends but we do talk about the kids and things that will effect them.

I never told him that I forgave him but said it to myself like a mantra. I had to set myself free. We still have issues and I do occasionally take a step back but he really isn't my problem anymore. You will get there too. I promise.

kat