Just remember it is a different time for everyone, you will get there. When this first happened, I did half the conferences and ex did the other half. Only problem I had was that ex was not telling them about the divorce. May seem trivial to some but it effects the kids a great deal. so I try to go to at least the girls with ex and we manage to get along. Last year we even went to the bookfair like always and he paid for half the books and I the other half.
Are we friends? No, but we are parents to the same great kids. really important to remember that.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory