I have actually gotten an email and text from her, about the kids of course. But the strange thing was, it was stuff she didn't really need to say (obvious details about things). It was almost like she wanted to communicate with me. I kept my replies brief and on topic. I found myself starting to analyze, and 180'd right away.
That's how it started with my W.
Keep up with the GAL and 180s. W noticed the littlest changes and would start texting more and more...usually the small chat.Then it would progress the face to face. The only thing I didn't like about the talks were W talking about the past. But it was a good thing, as I could validate her feelings. It got her to open up more.
Keep it up!!!
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
