I told her that MC wasn't working for us, and that I thought it best if we separate. I told her that I couldn't be in a relationship where the other person wasn't passionate about me;
A lot of confusing things going on there. But, I would consider mentioning separation and working out logistics, dumping someone.
Whats the plan for tonight? Whats the back up plan?
I'm going to tell her that last night's ML was a natural mistake; that it doesn't change what we should do in the future. I'll talk about some of the logistics of her moving out, and rough timetables.
There is no backup plan. I can't keep swinging on this pendulum, and I can't keep doing it to her.