WAW Using God III

[pigskin]

Thanks knittedscarff. I do pray for her to be enlightened by the truth. One day she will be, but it may come too late for this marriage.

I'm not too worried about the agreement to raise the kids in the catholic faith. Everything in our history of raising them has been in the church - baptism, mass attendance, first communion, etc., so there is no ambiguity as to how they were being raised. There's no evidence for any lawyer to prove that there was any question on the matter. When I asked my lawyer about it, he told me that the courts would go by historical precedent. So even if my W were dumb enough to try to fight it, she'd lose.

I know my W doesn't want to reconcile, but prayer is powerful, and a lot of people, many of whom I've never met, are praying for us. All things are possible with God, and people's hearts can and do change. But like I noted in the prior posts, this is not an open ended waiting period for her to come around. The process of dissolution has started and I won't stop it unless I see a complete change of heart, full commitment, and agreement to abide by strict conditions of reconciliation.

Once we've signed on the dotted line, the game is over. There will be no rematch.