cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[awest1217]

Had fun with my friend last night. Her D was final in July I believe and I am going through it so we both understand each other. She is 25 and her and her XH didn't have children so that is a blessing because although her XH had an affair, he still calls her (she had to change her number) and tries to get back together with her. She won't go back because they tried to reconcile and after a year of MC and her thinking things were great (they went on a second honeymoon to Hawaii where they got married because he has family there) just to find out he never ended the A and that he was doing drugs. All in all, she said she was done and didn't want him back after being burned twice.

Now she is dating a guy and is taking things slow. SHe isn't looking for a new H, but is enjoying the companionship and is letting things go as they go.

It was nice to talk to someone who understands what I am going through. We talked about forgiveness, how hard it is, how we look like the bad guy for filing when we both know we were wronged, and more stuff. It is nice to have someone who is there with me and understands me. She went to church with me for a while so understands that aspect too. It was all fun and nice!