You just said that he never really called you and you were always the one to do it, so wouldn't it be a 180 NOT to call him?
This, not calling would be a 180 right? I know it is for me. I'd say you should keep to 180's, GAL, and NC. Let him miss you, let him realize what he's losing.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness