You nee dto give us some more data about your situation. How long have you been married, kids, affairs, ages?
Are you sure you should post here, in this forum? Newcomers get more traffic and you would get more responses...
Anyway, waiting for your post to understand a little more about you and see if any of us can help you out. (For starters quit doing what you have been doing and expecting a different result, that is the definition of insanity, you know? If 4 times whatyou guys have been doing hasnt worked, the 5th wont work either...) K