Prepare for a wonderful discovery

[sage]

Do you have goals right now for your part in your relationship? Back to the very basics of all this. Something you can run through the filter and before you act or react, ask yourself that old standby, will it get me closer to my goal?

Oh, jackie...thank you for such a wise post! You have hit the nail on the head as to where I need to be...back at basics...setting goals...etc.

It was partly why I started the "DR" threads some weeks ago but I let myself get sidetracked (FEAR?) with work and school.

Goals work. I know they do. And by channeling my energy perhaps I could start feeling better about the changes I HAVE made instead of feeling so....well, bad.

Thanks for the wonderful reminder...time to dust off those threads!

Sage