Wife filed for divorce...Is there still hope?

[LSG]

Pookie69,

I appreciate the advice. I am so ready for the next or any interview.

It always good to be reminded of the basics. I will be better than ever.

Review, practice, and confidence with gain me my next job.

I look forward to my next opportunity.

Any other tips you have keep them coming. It could only help to be better prepared.

Thank you very much!

[LSG]

dad1b1g,

You are right that I am getting some great advice here, and I am following every bit of it.

You and everyone are so right. I need to take my own advice from time to time. It is easier to give it than it is to do what I should know already.

It does hurt, and I know it will for sometime to come. I have to accept that.

Thank you for paying back. I really need soem good 2x4s from time to time. I am emotional guy, and I sometimes let my emotions take over.

I am keeping everyone off my facebook for now. I don't want W to know anything I am doing or suspect me here even thought I think she does.

I really appreciate your support right now.

[LSG]

W had dinner for me on the table tonight with the kids. I was surprised. We ate together, and played with the kids. It was fun.

W had her cell in the bathroom, and I knew that she was TMing OM. She is so obvious.

After she got ready for bed, she came out and wanted to talk. I am not ready to talk because I need a few more days to prepare and talk to my attorney about a few things first, so I am ready for anything she says to me.

W: Can we talk?
Me: I said I do not feel like talking right now.
W: We need to talk about a schedule for kids during school (when I move out).
Me: We will talk on Friday.
W: What date is that?
Me: I don't know.
W: OK, that is fine with me.

That was our conversation. I just have nothing to say to her. I would like to never speak with her again if I could. I will discuss the kids or anything related to me and the D.

She just upsets me knowing she is talking to the OM and disrespecting me. I will not let her decide for me what will happen when she moves out.

She is leading for now, but I plan to lead with knowledge on Friday when we do speak.

I am just sickened by her and what she has done to me and the kids. I have no respect for her.

[LSG]

Did I do okay last night with WAW?

She wants to know what we should do on custody. What plan should I have? Does anyone have any ideas?

I will talk to my attorney Thursday, but I need some ideas so I know what I want for the me and the kids too. W wants 50-50, so I need to know the different plans. Does someone have a link to find some good ones ahead of time. I was thinking of going to the leg-aid about this. Any ideas?

Thanks for the help!

[LSG]

W did have a plate set for me for dinner last night. It is not a big deal. Well, I guess it is for her since it has been so long to eat together as a family, and she always excludes me from dinner.

Not reading into anything. I just find it surprising.

[LSG]

I have not heard back on the job that the hiring manager said his secretary would call me about today. I want to call, but I know I should not. My desperation is again getting the best of me.

IDU - You mentioned in your thread that I am creating my own luck. I hope that luck starts showing itself in some results soon.

I just have to keep it together for as long as possible.

[idontunderstand]

Maybe wait for Pookie to chime in, but I wouldn't be afraid to call and check with the sec. Maybe not today but I would call tomorrow. Sometime they will wait and see if you take the initiative to call them.

Again, just my $.02.

You have kept it together so far, you can keep it up.

We are here to help.

[DanF]

What do YOU WANT for custody? In my sitch it looks like this:

W: Mon, Tue
Me: Wed, Thur
Alternate: Fri, Sat, Sun

Mediator said a week on week off is too hard for the smaller kids, so you may want to do something like I will have above.

[LSG]

IDU,

Thanks! I am doing my best to keep it together, and I will continue to do so. Tomorrow is a new day. Maybe something will happen then. I have a 30 day countdown. I need a little more money for the mobile home. I will discuss it with my attorney on Thursday. I hope I am called on a job tomorrow. W is absolutely p!ssing me off with her CB. She is always laughing on the phone, and she is doing her best to stick it to me. I am not going to let her cheating, lying a$$ do it. Sorry! She just disgust me so much what she has done. She has not even told that kids that she is moving yet. I did because they needed to know, not just a weekend before she leaves. I am not sure of our custody arrangement since judge was not able to rule at the time. I will fight for primary custody. I don't know if I will get it. I will never stop fighting for anything.

I am just upset with her. I needed to get it out. Sorry!!!

[LSG]

DanF,

Can you tell me some other arrangements. I need to be totally prepared when we discuss it Friday. I will discuss it with my attorney on Thursday too.

Thanks for helping me to understand this whole custody situation. It sucks that I will not be able to spend everyday with my kids. I do not want to miss a moment with them. I guess that is the way it is.

I hate this whole thing. I guess I will adjust in time.