Well it finally happened. H went to therapist today and he told him sounds like its over and non recoverable. H said he was definatley over. Ugghhh..How do you start your new life at 40 when you have little work skills? The thought is soooo overwhelming.
Brings up all sorts of new pains. Told the kids we are are not getting along and I've moved into a spare bedroom. I think they have hope and it's killing me when I know it's over. Therapist said to ease them into it over time. H wants to live together till the kids are 18 but I don't think I can do this for 3 years. I have so much anger towards him for not trying one last time. H thinks it will benefit the kids, but how can it when I cant muster up enough to get mature to do it for them?
I'm no longer confused, it's clear as day and its so frightening. Ladies in younger relationships, pay attention to your mans emotional and sexual needs before he slips away. Make the time even when you don't feel like it. Make time for you as a couple even if pains you. 23 years of love for nothing, except my wonderful children that I'm afarid for as well.
Me 40 H 42 S 16 D 15 Together for 23 years Married 18 Blow up 8/21/10 DBomb-but hiding for the kids sake? 8/25/10
