Another story of a WH and an LBS

[newmama]

Hi Gatsby!
1) why would you be thinking of dating? I don't recall your marriage being over...no one has filed for divorce!

And a sign to not date is if you feel scared.

2)Once again, I am in agreement with BD and Piano. I really really think that you should try just laying off the talk of counseling and relationship and try to just "be." Or not care. Or stop TRYING unless it is a change you want to make for you. Because your H isn't in a rush to divorce you, then you can use that as a sign that he is uncertain. Being uncertain is good. BD's H turned around...

3)Boy is it true that we just can't try to figure out the WAHs. I think this is natural for us to want to figure them out but the seasoned DBers tell everyone "detach! don't worry about them!" and NOW I get it...it's like watching Mulholland Drive or Twin Peaks or those weird movies and shows where you can interpret the theme or outcome in so many different ways that it makes you dizzy with the possibilities. I wish I could think of a better analogy!

4) Please don't dread reading my thread! There is no dating action currently (although I did window shop on POF the other day) I do care to hear your opinions and insights!