I like that TH, sunshine. She wanted me out of where i am at, I need to be anyway, now that I am getting my own place i think she is freaking out a bit. It is a little different with kids, now that S is having a hard time with this, she is having to deal with him more often. It kills me that he is going through this, and I want to be there for him, but she has to deal with him during this. I hope she is handling it the right way.
I think with the first hearing in just over a week, maybe the whole realization of what you put into overdrive is freaking her out a bit. the way she is acting seems that way, but who knows other than her. I am just going to keep doing what I am doing, I think what got under her skin was the fact I kept telling the kids(we were on speaker) that when daddy gets his new place we will play games and go swimming in the new pool. I am getting a nice new apartment and I think it is freaking her out now. Whether its true or not, It makes me feel better that the tables have turned a bit. She seems to be the one obsessing now, she is the one who is initiating, when she gets hostile I either end it, or calmly tell her this is not going to go theat way.
I am still going down MY path, I will not fight her on the D, which I think she kind of expected, but I realized with the help of everyone here, whats the point? I cant change her mid, by being needy and trying to convince her she is making a mistake? she needs time to really understand what gear she put this car in, at some point there will be no reverse.
