TH what the hell does she expect, that I will just be her BFF
Yep. Mine is trying that too. BFF ... until she finds somebody else, I expect. I think it is more than that, but that's part of it. Keep you from moving on before she's ready (and she might not even be fully concious of it).
I got a free cheese steak sandwhich because after a few phone calls and emails, I answered and said "look Sunshine, we're not going to be buddies".
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