Thought about something like that as well, TH what the hell does she expect, that I will just be her BFF I guess, she had no interest in this kind of conversation and this amount of contact when we were separated in the same house, and now she gets sad when I get back to what i am doing.... manipulation at its best. But I am trying to be there to a degree but when I feel I am being too "available" I go the other way.
She is used to this kind of attention and thrives for drama, so when the drama kicks in the attention from me goes bye bye.