Blindsided, Just served with papers!

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She started to give me crap about the fact I keep asking her to get the rest of her stuff and that I promised to move it all for her. I said negative, I told you I would move what I could a week ago, and then I ran out of room in the uhaul and that you would need to get the rest of it.

Too much yabbering. "I didn't promise to move it all, and even if I had, I can change my mind too" <wink at her>

She then sends a text thank you, enjoy your evening. I returned a U 2.

Go dimm. Don't respond if there are no questions to somebody who is arguing with you and starting fights. Don't reward bad behavior. In fact, laugh about it unless it is something where you need to draw a line in the sand (boundary).

When I go dark for more than a day she starts contacting me
We have a good pleasant day of conversation then she turns into I am woman hear me roar!!!!

This is rhetorical, right? Give her more space, and be fun when you do the kid exchanges. If she gets pushy or nasty, do you best Cary Grant and point out that it's no way to act. Humor helps.