Actually the 'loss' of a M or R has been studied to resemble the Kubler Ross model. The way I remember it, the stages are not really followed in a particular order. Some people even skip certain stages. Spend more time in one than another, move through them in cycles, etc... It's not a linear progression - more of a chaotic dance.
Be careful of mixing up feelings with intuition. Feelings can be way off track - wrong assumptions, mind reading, incorrect perceptions of what is 'really' going on can cause a myriad of unhealthy thoughts which then trigger corresponding feelings. We already had the lesson on our total insane belief we can somehow predict the future or even claim to know what current events even mean.
Expression of the feelings by talking about them is one thing, movement based on them is another. Yes, confront your feelings. Put them out there. That doesn't mean when you're angry you need to get violent, it means when you're angry, you say you're angry. Big difference.
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