Question for the officially divorced

[KenF]

soleil
I've found for myself, thinking about the D and what went wrong and who did what with whom and who was at fault became a habit.

its been a little over 2 years since it ended, and a year since it became official. and i can finally say it doesnt take up my mind anymore.

be very careful what your mind dwells on. if you keep running the situation through your head it will become habit. and whenever you relax, you'll start to replay the situation again and again. its relentless.

and i've found this to be very unhealthy for me.

i couldnt say this last year, but when its done, then be done with it.